Birth partners in theatre

Birth partners can usually be in the operating theatre for the entire procedure. The only exception is if the person giving birth needs general anaesthetic. In this case, you will be asked to wait outside and we will keep you updated.

If you would prefer not to go into theatre, your midwife will be happy to support your partner instead.

If you would like to be in theatre for the birth, we'll give you theatre clothes to wear. You can bring your camera or phone with you. There will be some routine safety checks with the whole team. 

You can sit next to your partner to give support. You can hold their hand and reassure them. It can be a very emotional time for you both. If, at any time, you feel light-headed or unwell, tell a member of the team and you can step out for some fresh air.

Your partner will lie on the operating table, which will usually be slightly tilted. She will have a drip running and some routine monitors on. The anaesthetist will give your partner pain relief and check they are comfortable.

The surgeon will use a sterile sheet as a screen during the operation. However, you may see small reflections in the night lights or windows, so you may want to reposition yourself.

It usually takes 20 minutes from the start of surgery until your baby is born, then another 45 minutes until the end, but can sometimes be longer.

During a planned caesarean birth, there is usually no rush. If agreed beforehand, the obstetrician can lay your baby down before cutting the cord. This helps give your baby extra blood from the placenta (delayed cord clamping). If you wish, they can hold your baby up for you to see.

Your baby may not cry right away. Don’t worry. The baby doctor or midwife will check and care for them.

Once your baby is breathing well and looks healthy, they will bring them to you. If there are concerns, they may take your baby to the Special Care Baby Unit (SCBU). They will explain what is happening as soon as possible.

If all is well, your midwife may ask your partner if she wants skin-to-skin contact. This helps keep your baby warm and promotes bonding. If she does, the midwife will help find a safe, comfortable position. Otherwise, your midwife can wrap your baby in a towel for you or your partner to cuddle.

As the operation finishes, a team member will show you where to change back into your own clothes.

It is usually possible to take some photos of your baby and partner after the baby is born. Discuss the best time for photographs with your midwife and anaesthetist. A member of staff can always guide and help you with this.

Please note: if you are taking a mobile phone into theatre only use it for taking photos.